Making the child feel secure and part of the family is very important for parents who adopt the child. Parents must aim at creating a connection with the child and must find ways to bond with them. This initial step is the key to a successful and happy life for both the parent as well as the child. Parents must clear their schedules and spend as much time with the new child as possible and make him feel welcomed in the new family.

The basic needs of the child should be taken care of quickly and he must be reassured that he is in safe hands. Building trust in your child that he is in safe hands is an important step in bonding. Holding and cuddling the child and indulging in activities that encourage eye contact also help to create a strong bond between the parent and the new child. Games and activities that help the two of you share a smile develop a common ground that leads to happy memories together.

It is also helpful to consider sleeping with your child so that you can take care of any sudden need that may arise in the night and doing so is also a wonderful way to promote closeness between you. Parents should allow the new child to take some time in order to get over the grieve caused due to the loss of his birth parents. It is also important for parents to be patient on their part as it sometimes may take time to establish a true connection.